Particularly sensitive people can cause misunderstandings in others. Often they are thought to be “exaggerating”.
They respond to everyday situations with automatic and unwanted gaze-turning reactions. This is normal for them and you should remember it.
But judging them before you know what’s going on causes misunderstandings. Most people do not know the discomfort they feel and what causes such reactions.
We want to provide you with a guide to understand some of the general reactions of particularly sensitive people.
1. They cannot withstand heavy pressure
Doing several different chores can be overwhelming for hypersensitive people. They prefer to focus on one thing and give it their all. In fact, they are often very creative people.
They work better in a quiet environment. When this doesn’t happen, they get stressed and are unable to be efficient and productive.
When there is noise around them or someone urging them to be attentive to multiple questions, they begin to feel blocked.
When this happens, particularly sensitive people become irritated and difficult to tolerate.
2. They avoid chaotic environments
In our society, chaos is always well received, so it seems that we are looking for sounds, loud music and strong stimulants that keep the silence away.
However, particularly sensitive people avoid all of this.
The stimulating effects of too many things simultaneously drive them “crazy”. Smells, sounds, interruptions… these all take away the balance they had until that moment.
Sometimes the situation goes to the point where they get annoyed even by the sound of chewing.
The reaction they give to these “little things” is interesting. They also often end up annoying the people around them who don’t realize they’re making them uncomfortable.
3. They take things personally
A person who is particularly sensitive takes the experiences they experience personally. This happens because they are empathetic.
They react strongly to social injustices. They also react strongly to something that has become exploited by another person.
This is also due to the fact that they focus on the details. They are experts in the analysis of nonverbal communication, which says more than words.
For this reason, they can always tell if you are trustworthy or are hiding something.
They don’t like this. It also worries others. This is because people don’t usually focus and analyze these microelements that we all have.
Some believe that these are simply their imaginations. Others try to say that “they should take it personally.” However, none of these work.
4. They need solitude like fish need water
This can be a big surprise to the rest of the world. All in all, people tend to avoid loneliness. They are afraid of differentiation from others and everything.
However, people who are very sensitive are looking for solitude. They seek moments of peace and tranquility when nothing from the outside world affects them.
It is normal for them to refuse calls, turn off their phones for a day, or unwilling to respond to messages.
Unfortunately, this can make their friends regret their minds. This situation sometimes brings them problems with their partner.
This is not to say that they would not want to spend time with their friends. It just means they need more time for themselves than other people.
5. If something happens, the special ones are not the same
The balance of particularly sensitive people is very sensitive not only to what happens in their mind, but also to what happens in their body. This is because they are very closely related to their bodies.
Headache, abdominal pain, hunger, or other discomfort can become unbearable. This causes immediate changes in their behavior, causing people around them to worry.
Sometimes it is difficult to deal with very sensitive people. All in all, putting ourselves in their shoes is very difficult.
However, not judging, asking questions to understand, and opening your mind so you can understand how they see the world is very important to both of you.